'Now you expect me to give him pointers?': Worker gets passed up for promotion and asked for help by the successful candidate

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    Font - The guy who got the job I wanted reached out to me for help with his job. I was having problem with manager A and applied to an internal transfer with manager B. Manager B opted for an outside hire so I got the same job outside. We ended up connecting on LinkedIn and it was a sore spot for me because they guy went to a lower tier school than mine, doesn't have a master's, and hasn't quite worked at the same calibre of past employers as mine.
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    Font - I put in my 4-week notice and now the person who ended up getting the job reached out to me and said, "Manager B gave me your name because he says you're the go-to person for this in our organisation. Really appreciate it if you could give me a few pointers with my projects."
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    Font - I mean, I'm trying really hard not to be salty here. And it's not the guy's fault he got the job he didn't know I wanted. I will help him if I can when I'm still here but WTO manager B? Let me get this straight. You turned me down for a job knowing I am the go-to person in the organisation, hired someone whom you know doesn't have the same expertise, and now you expect me to give him pointers? Does any of this sound fair to you? Geez. Talk about taking people for granted. I feel both vali
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    Font - RandomRed Mage Don't help him, but don't son him either. When confronted about not helping and not being a team player make it clear without a shadow of a doubt why you are leaving and why you are not willing to help. Reply Share 43. 3.3k Pee_A_Poo OP I mean... I'll definitely consider this but also... I think I ended up liking the guy? I'm such a people pleaser 1.2k Reply Share
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    Font - pizzabot22 Your company is limiting your advancement internally to keep you in a position they value you in. That helps them, but does not help you. Good job on escaping. Absolutely be salty and refer them back to their own manager. Use weaponized incompetence as well:
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    Font - "I applied for your role and got passed over - since they hired externally and clearly don't think I am capable of doing the job, I'm not sure why they think I'm the go-to expert. I'd suggest getting back with Manager B to understand who is really the best candidate to help with supporting your transition. If the answer is still me, I am open to discussing terms for consulting/training services as needed, based around my current work schedule." 10.6k ♡ Reply Share
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    Font - CampWestfalia. New Guy: "Manager B says you're the go-to guy!" OP: "Tell Manager B he is mistaken: if I were the go-to guy, they would have gone to me."
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    Font - Reese_Grey Do not help that guy. Company played itself on this one and its trying to play you instead. 2.0k Reply Share abecedorkian "wish I could help you, but I'm terribly busy with my own stuff right now. Maybe in a month or so when things quiet down." 905 Reply Share
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    Font - DangerousAd1731 Did they take that person because of lower pay maybe. That's nutty. 241 Reply Share Pee_A_Poo OP Maybe. That's what my partner suggested as well? But the dude is 5-10 yr older so I assume he may asks for a higher pay (we're in the 100k+ range) than me? Also, if I'm deemed too expensive, then I can't really explain why I got a raise from manager A without asking for it. 177 Reply Share
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    Font - AwYeah QueerShit "Unfortunately I will not be able to help as my skills were deemed insufficient for that position." 274 Reply Share

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